5 Reasons: Finger Foods

Top Five Reasons I LOVE Finger Foods:

Reason 1:  You can eat so many different type of foods because its not a large portion.

Reason 2:  Its easier for me to host parties with a mingle atmosphere because of the layout of my townhouse, finger foods let my guests eat and move around easily.  

Reason 3:  Finger Foods are usually A LOT cuter that other types of buffet arrangements!

Reason 4:  Serving finger foods lets me use this recipe for "Mini Spinach Dip Bread Bowls" by Picky Palate.  (I made them, and they are easy and DELICIOUS!)

Reason 5:  Finger foods let me choose option three from my question of "How Much Food?" by letting me make lots of different recipes and letting guests pick and choose which ones they want to eat.


Do you love finger foods?  

Call Me Maybe? RSVP Rules.

Does anyone else have Carly Rae’s “Call me, Maybe” stuck in their head ALL THE TIME? (I’m not the only one right?)

Well this post is not about that song… (but I bet your singing it in your head now).   

I wanted to converse about the idea of R.S.V.P.-ing.

R.S.V.P.:  Repondez, s’il vous plait or “Please Reply” (That’s about all I got out of high school French class!)

In the past (although I cannot find anything about this in my circa 1922 Emily Post Etiquette book), the etiquette around the idea of  R.S.V.P.-ing was to respond to an invitation (usually written or phone call) letting the host know if you will be attending.    

Do you think this is still how it is used today? 

I don’t really see the need for an R.S.V.P. on an invite to a buffet or other get together where the guest list doesn’t need to be exact.  I would think that the only need for an RSVP would be on a formal invitation to a wedding, etc.   

As the host of a party or event, it truly is up to you as to the choice of adding RSVP information to your invitation.  You can do this in many ways:

1.  Sending an R.S.V.P. card along with the invitation with postage already paid (usually a must for formal weddings).

2.  Supply your guests with a phone number/ email address to contact you as to their plans on attending.

3  Choose the "regret's only" route and ask that guests only contact you if they are going to be missing out on the festivities.

I have to admit, I have accidentally forgotten to RSVP to events in the past (I know, shame on me!), but what should you do as a host if guests do not respond to your RSVP demands?  You have a few questions to ask yourself:

If someone does not answer, is that a no?  

Is silence acceptance?

Should you call each guest that did not answer the RSVP and ask them for a response?

I suggest, rather than getting upset that a guest did not respond, just call them up and ask them if they received and invite and if so, if they will be able to make it.  (Don't ask for details, its possible that your guest might not want to divulge the reasoning for not attending a function.)

Now , I hope every time you put RSVP in an invite, you sing to yourself: “Call me, maybe?”

Labor Day Round Up

Labor Day is coming up in a few weeks, and that means kids are back to school and summer is almost over!

Here are a few things to do before the holiday arrives:

-  Check out the free Labor Day decoration printables made especially for you!  Use them as a welcome sign or conversation starters for your guests.

-  Read this Outdoor Entertaining Series before you plan your outdoor event:

     Part One:  Keeping the Party Going When the Sun Goes Down  
     Part Deux:  Battling Mother Nature
     Part Three:  Dealing with Pests

-  Make your own food cover with this handy DIY How To!

-  Use this great and easy recipe to show off some patriotic colors:  Pretzel Bites!

One Year Blogiversary: Thank you!

A little over one year ago, I started this blog on a whim to learn more about party planning and etiquette. 

I have learned a lot; not only planning and etiquette, but also about blogging, writing html, photography and social media.


I wanted to give a big and heartfelt THANK YOU  to all the subscribers and those (my "staff")  who have helped me in this venture!  

As always, feel free to contact me through comments, or email at Jessica@classyeventorganizer.com.


Cheers to another year of being classy!

Free Trip - Dayton, Ohio

Hey there!!  I participated in "Creating Really Awesome Free Trips" over on C.R.A.F.T. (Creating Really Awesome Free Things) a few weeks ago and thought you might want a little "look-see" at the post.  Don't forget to click the "participation" button on the side bar to see the rest of the free trips!

Hello there!  I'm Jessica and I grew up in a suburb of Dayton, OH!  I'm sure not many of you have heard of Dayton, OH.  It's not exactly a BIG city, but it certainly has a BIG history!  I have collected 10 awesome and FREE things to do, during a days travel around the Dayton area.

1.  United States Air Force Museum.  In case you didn't know Dayton, OH is the birthplace of flight.  It is where Orville and Wilbur Wright had their bicycle shop and did most of their R&D on the first airplane, so it fits that it is the home to the United States Air Force Museum.  The Museum has everything anyone would want to know about air travel from the beginning (air balloons) to present day missiles.  It is open from 9am to 5pm daily (except for Thanksgiving, Christmas Day, and New Years Day) and always have FREE admission.  (Best part about this place is the FREE air conditioning on a HOT day!

2. Dayton Art Museum.  The Dayton Art Museum is home to many wonderful pieces of fine art.  It is located atop a hill of the edge of the Great Miami River overlooking downtown Dayton, the view on the outside is almost as brilliant as the fine art within.  The Museum is closed on Mondays and Tuesdays, but open the rest of the week.  The Museum has a "suggested" admission fee ($8 per adult and kids are free) however, it is free to view the "permanent" areas of the museum.  Not only does this building hold a lot of beautiful items inside, the architecture is rather brilliant as well.   

3.  RiverScape Metro Park.  This park is along side the Great Miami River and is the perfect place to start a walk, jog, bike ride, or to just sit and eat some ice cream.  In the winter there is an ice skating rink (free, except for skate rental).  In the summer there is a fountain for kids to run through as well as a HUGE July 4th celebration (usually on the 3rd of July) including fireworks, food vendors, and band concerts.   

4.  Old Court House.  The Court House in the middle of Dayton has been a staple since its completion in 1850.  The Court House was the backdrop of many Presidential Campaigns as well as war bond drives during World War II.  Today, this area is home to festivals (both in summer and winter) as well as a great place to sit and eat lunch while enjoying the sights and sounds in the middle of the city.  

5.  Booshoft Museum of Discovery.  This Museum is a GREAT place for kids!  It is full of science exhibits including areas of Astronomy, Anthropology, Biology, geology and robotics.  This museum is open from 9am to 5pm Monday through Saturday and from 12pm to 5pm on Sundays (Closed on most major holidays.)  The admission is "usually" $8 for children and $9 for adults, and is free to its members.  It does however have certain days throughout the year they they open up to the public for free admission  

6. Germantown Dam.  Not to far from the center of downtown Dayton is a large natural park which is home to a dam.  This park has a nature center, LOTS of trails, as well as a great big (you guessed it!)...  Dam.  The Dam was built in 1918 (only a few years after the big 1913 flood).  It is 100 feet high and 655 feet wide at its base (its soo big, I couldn't get a good picture of it!).  This Dam is really important to Dayton and its surrounding areas because without it, Dayton would flood.

7. The Greene.  The Greene is an outside mall located in a really close suburb of Dayton.  It has lots of stores and places to eat!  One of the best parts about this mall is yet, another fountain for the kiddos to run and play in, but also the free concerts just about every evening.  This can range from cover bands, garage bands, to even popular artists like Mandy Moore!

8.  Sun Watch.  Sun Watch is an Indian Village and Archaeological Park located in Dayton that is connected with the Boonshoft Museum for membership.  This historical park takes visitors back in time to discover an 800 year old "partially reconstructed" Fort Ancient Village.  This includes touring replicas of homes and gardens which brings the ancient history to life! This park is open year round from 9am to 5pm Monday through Saturday and Sundays from noon to 5pm.  The admission for tours and events is usually $5 for adults and $3 for kids (children 6 and under are free).  This place has a coupon online for buy one, get one free admission for these events, too.   

9. The Miamisburg Mound.  The Miamisburg Mound is just that, a Mound, located in a suburb not too far from Dayton's Downtown.  The Mound is the largest conical burial mound in the state, and possibly in the eastern U.S.  Archaeological investigations of the area suspect the it was constructed by the Adena Indians (899 DC - AD 100).  You can climb the 116 steps from its base to its summit for not only a work out, but also to get a great view of the surrounding areas.  

10. Historical Oregon District.  The Historical Oregon District is probably one of my favorite places in Dayton, hence why I left it for last.  This area of Dayton is home to wonderful restaurants, art stores, historical homes, a small park, and many more.  This block is also the home of a LARGE Halloween Festival in October and a "First Four" Festival in March celebrating March Madness.  This quite but busy area is perfect for a mid-day walk.

I hope you have enjoyed this tour around a place I like to call my home town!  Come visit, there are plenty Awesome and Free things to do!!